Honey to the Bees


Thislife6 67F
10 posts
7/24/2021 8:54 am

What is going on with all of the guys who want to chat, talk dirty share photos then Disappear when it is time to meet?!? What could someone get out of that but maybe a hand job at bedtime, some satisfaction of building up someones expectations, a hardy har har? Yes you can change your mind about meeting me, just be honest and say so, I don't have one feeling that is going to be hurt over someone I have never met and don't know. I can't begin to tell you how many times this has happened. I am seriously pursuing something on this site, don't waste my time and brain power. !!

OldStandardDudeX 69M  
119 posts
7/24/2021 9:45 am

Boys will be boys, I suspect. The aninimity allows one to play a game, tease and taunt, but when things get real, it's time to bail. Personally, as a guy with honest intentions, the fake profiles and noise really gets in the way. I sense a lot of honest longing for that legitimate partner, but we often come up short. I think it's just the nature of the site, and others like it. Sigh.

Owatalife 65M
1688 posts
7/24/2021 10:48 am

Seems like a never ending story on this site reading the same comments from so many women all of which baffles the mind since you would assume most would at minimum do the decent thing & come correct. The most obvious reason for so many no shows would be that they are married or involved in another relationship. Life is too short for Liars & Cowards that is for sure.

As for your title I had to laugh a bit as in my youth I was nick named Casper by the mostly black teammates on my school bb team as they had never seen such fair pearl while skin on someone before. Was all in good jest as I got along fine with most of them, taking a ribbing as we all know just one small part of the awkward growing up phase of unbridled youth.

crosstraining 68T  
7376 posts
7/24/2021 11:03 am

I know exactly what you mean . {=}

Unzipmeslowly51 51M
559 posts
7/24/2021 12:40 pm

It happens to me also...so frustrating grrr😀😀

Realandready103 57M
20 posts
7/24/2021 3:08 pm

There are a lot of flakes. Don't take it personally

Granny872 69F  
4036 posts
7/24/2021 6:10 pm

Long ago I made the decision to skip anything but G-rated chat on this site. I suppose it's okay if there's a mutual understanding that's all either party to the conversation wants, but I suspect there's a fair amount of B.S. involved ... a little verbal hanky panky, false promises or suggestions made about meeting up to indulge in the real thing, but then POOF, someone gets stood up or ghosted, and the other is feeling a bit cheap and used.

Sorry it happens ... better luck in the future.

harbor112 62M
1533 posts
7/25/2021 12:15 am

I think a few do meet. Just like finding a needle in a haystack ...very rare

BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
7/25/2021 10:01 am

The "...guys who want to chat, talk dirty share photos then Disappear when it is time to meet," are the guys who just wanted to masturbate. They hardly ever have any intentions of meeting in the first place. They got off, and don't want to talk again...until they next time they want to get off.

I learned this early on. Like Granny, this is why I refuse to engage in sexually explicit chatting, pic sharing, watching their cam/getting on cam, etc. It's one thing to want virtual interactions to get sexual gratification, and there's nothing wrong with that. However, I didn't join the site for that.

I know you didn't ask, but my suggestion to you: do NOT engage in this type of interaction with anyone here.

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pantsonfiretoo 62M  
21 posts
7/27/2021 1:32 pm

This seems to happen to me over and over. I sent you a email, perhaps we will make a connection !

reallyready46 62M
1347 posts
8/1/2021 9:30 pm

Well some are pervs. They just look at pictures and wish. Some are in a relationship and have second thoughts about meeting you. Some just want to get a rise out of people. So I do get down by you often, come chat with me on my blog and lets see where we go from there.

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